DO NOT RUN AFTER WHAT GOD IS RELEASING YOU FROM 

There are moments when heaven permits a separation that your heart desperately wanted to prevent.
You prayed for them to stay. 
You fought for the relationship. 
You explained yourself. You forgave again.  
You waited. You hoped things would change.
And then suddenly, they walked away.
Your heart broke because you thought their departure meant you had lost something valuable.
But hear this with spiritual understanding:
NOT EVERY DEPARTURE IS A LOSS.  NOT EVERY CLOSED DOOR IS A REJECTION.  NOT EVERY SEPARATION IS A PUNISHMENT.  SOMETIMES WHAT BREAKS YOUR HEART IS WHAT PROTECTS YOUR DESTINY.
There are people you would have continued holding onto because you loved them, while God knew what their continued presence would eventually cost you.
You saw the memories.
God saw the future.
You saw who they were to you.
God saw what the relationship was becoming.
You saw the tears of separation.
God saw the tears you might have cried if you had stayed connected to what was no longer aligned with His purpose.

Isaiah 55:8–9  
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD.

Proverbs 13:20  
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

Romans 8:28  
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

STOP RUNNING AFTER PEOPLE WHO HAVE ALREADY DECIDED TO WALK AWAY.
Stop humiliating yourself for attention.
Stop begging for explanations from people who have already given you their answer through their actions.
Stop reopening wounds just because loneliness made you remember the good moments.
Stop romanticizing what repeatedly broke you.
Stop calling dysfunction “destiny.”
Stop calling emotional bondage “love.”
Stop believing that you must lose yourself to prove that you love someone.

IF GOD IS CLOSING A DOOR, ASK FOR DISCERNMENT BEFORE YOU ASK FOR THE DOOR TO OPEN AGAIN.
And let this truth enter your spirit:
SOMETIMES GOD DOES NOT REMOVE A PERSON BECAUSE THEY WERE COMPLETELY EVIL. SOMETIMES HE ALLOWS A SEPARATION BECAUSE THE SEASON, PURPOSE, DIRECTION OR RELATIONSHIP NO LONGER FITS WHAT HE IS DOING IN YOUR LIFE.
Do not turn every painful separation into a spiritual accusation against the other person.
Pray.
Discern.
Forgive.
Learn.
Heal.
And move forward.

I DECREE AND DECLARE:
I decree that you will not spend the rest of your life mourning what God is using to redirect you.
I decree that every unhealthy attachment that has been keeping you emotionally imprisoned is losing its grip over your life.
I decree that your heart will recover from betrayal, rejection, abandonment and disappointment.
I decree that you will no longer beg for a place where you are not valued.
I decree that God will give you wisdom to recognize the difference between what must be restored and what must be released.
I decree that your peace will return.
I decree that your confidence will return.
I decree that your spiritual discernment will become sharper.
I decree that you will stop looking backward with regret and begin looking forward with faith.
And where you have been crying because someone walked away, may God give you the grace to understand that your life did not end when they left.
Your story is still being written.
Your purpose is still alive.
Your calling is still standing.
Your future is still in God’s hands.
YOU MAY HAVE LOST A PERSON, BUT YOU HAVE NOT LOST GOD.
And if God remains with you, there is still hope beyond the goodbye.
I DECREE AND DECLARE: WHAT LEFT YOUR LIFE WILL NOT DESTROY YOUR FUTURE. WHAT GOD HAS ORDAINED FOR YOU WILL NOT BE CANCELLED BY HUMAN DEPARTURE. YOUR HEART SHALL HEAL, YOUR EYES SHALL OPEN, YOUR SPIRIT SHALL RISE, AND YOU SHALL WALK FORWARD WITHOUT FEAR.
IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST. AMEN‼️